Outting...

 

This will be brief.  I need to get around.  We're going to a holiday thing & it's in the early afternoon.  I need to get cleaned up & then go over.  

People want to tell you what it means to do the holidays, to be gay, to be this or that, hell even how to be you.  That's total BS!  Only you get to decide that.  Maybe some of it you share with others, maybe you don't.   Whatever it is, like they say, you do you.  No one else is going to do it for you.  At the end of the day, the only person you owe anything to is yourself.  If you choose to let others in, that's your choice.  But you can set limits & show them the out door.  To hell with all the authentic crap, just be real to yourself.  In the end, that's your only real obligation.  Screw that up & you're only hurting yourself.

May the holidays lighten your load.  Find the holly jolly where you can.  Take care.

Cya...