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Saturday, December 31, 2011

Cya 2011...

I have to admit, I am among the many who will be happy to see 2011 in the rear-view mirror.  I mean it just wasn't a good year for a lot of folks, no matter where you were in the world. Between the continued warring, horrid weather & even worse economics, 2011 was not a picnic.

I have to wonder what it must be like to the year that every one is so incredibly glad to be past.  What is it like to be a disdained year?  What it's like to 2011, or the year of the stock market crash, or the year a world war started, etc...?   I mean, it must absolutely suck to be 2011 in comparison to some year like 1776 for the USA or even the Summer of Love 1969.

I will do my best to make my peace with 2011.  

  • I am thankful you are about over, but you gave me something to compare other years to
  • I learned I can survive a hellish year of weather
  • I know what it's like to replace a hot water heater
  • I know what it's like to have a frozen pipe fixed
  • I know about insurance issues
I could on, but I think I've made my point.  I have to admit there's already some things I am not looking forward to in 2012.  There is another round of craziness lurking in regards to another doomsday story.  There are the Olympics &  how can we forget in the USA it is an election year, yippie!

To 2011, I wish you a happy retirement wherever it is that years go after they've passed.   To 2012, I hope you bring better tidings than your predecessor.  I don't think I can stand many more life lessons.

Happy New Year's Eve

Cya

Friday, December 30, 2011

Birthdays...

Today is my sister's birthday.  I used to make a notable effort to always call her either on or before the 30th to wish her a happy birthday.  She will be 52 this year.  That's so weird, because in my head she's a wild child teenager & I'm the little kid tagging along behind her.   It's really amazing how you can grow so far away from people you used to be so close to.  Amazing probably isn't the right word, but's close enough.

When I was about 8, my sister decided she'd had enough of all my mom's crap & moved out.  It really wasn't much of anything for a 15 or 16 year old to move out on their own back then.  That left me as the oldest in the house with that woman.   I took care of household chores & my two younger brothers.  Imagine leaving an eight year old to watch other children & to cook  with no adult any where nearby.  Yet, I still saw my sister fairly often.

When my sister was about 17, she married her first husband.    The marriage was hell & lasted a little under eight years.  I hated her husband with a passion.   Too bad he's still among the living.  I only saw my sister about a third of the time she was married to husband number one.  

When I was a freshmen in college, she married again & is still married to this one.  They lived a ways off & I only saw her once or twice.  After that, they moved to Seattle.  I was a junior in college when that happened & I haven't seen her since.  Still I tried to keep in contact.  That was difficult.  It was before email (which my sister doesn't do) & my sister is a lousy letter writer.

It was in the mid 1990's before I really managed to reestablish contact with her again on a fairly regular basis. It was only via phone calls, but it was something.  Over the years, I noticed that she called less & less.  It eventually turned out to be I was the one making all the calls.  We used to talk every other week or so.  Now, it's maybe every other month & I think she's fine with that.

It took me a while to admit some things.  My sister & I really weren't family anymore.  She was someone/something from my past.  One of the few things that I had managed to hold onto throughout my life.    My sister probably feels too indebted to the idea of family to just not answer the phone.  Finally, when my sister first moved out, all those years ago, I was angry.    I understood she had to get away from our mother, but that meant I was there alone.  I was never close to my other siblings, I'm still not.  The one I was close to, left.

Over time, it turned into me being the only one calling.  Her never remembering the holidays as far as I was concerned.  So, I call once in November before Thanksgiving & give my happy holidays for all those to come, knowing she won't call me.  If it took more effort than a phone call, I'd probably walk away from this altogether. Oh well, that's life.

Happy Birthday Sis...

Cya

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Dentist Calls...

The dental appointment beckons, so this is a short post.  Here's hoping, I can keep this dentist.  I really don't want to have to change just because my insurance went sideways on me.  My dentist is really good for me.  He handles a few patients at a time, instead of having them crammed in like sardines.   His office calls, emails & sends me a postcard to remind me of my appointments.  Sometimes we really do need three extra reminders.  Well, off I go to get phase two of a crown done & a cleaning.  Woohoo for me.

Cya

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

The Last Trash Day's Eve...

This is the last trash day's eve for 2011.  This is the last time of the year of dragging bags to the curb & leaving them there for the truck to haul away in the morning.  Another year is really wrapping up.  Tomorrow is my last dentist appointment of the year.  It might even turn to be the last one I have with this dentist.

What new things will come in 2012?  Will they be things I embrace or things that just irritate me?  I'll have new dental insurance, which so far has been an irritant.  It's all so que sera, sera.  I'm not really all that into the whatever will be, will be thing.  It's not Virgoan at all.

Here's hoping for the best.

Cya

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Four Days Left...

There are four days left in 2011.  There are seven left in my eleventh year of knowingly being HIV+.  My condition, at least for as long as I have been absolutely aware of it, is as old as the years of this century.  I guess in some ways that makes me a century baby.  

Even though I was born in 1966, my life has had many defining moments.  We moved around a lot so I won't list those or else I'd be writing for days.  

Somewhere about 1967/8 I had my first broken bone.  It was a femur.  I'm told I slipped part way out of a swing & got my leg caught.  I know I had to be in traction for a while.  

I started school earlier than most because of how my birthday fell.  When most kids were six during kindergarten, I didn't turn six until first grade.  I was always playing catch up.  I didn't turn sixteen until my junior year & eighteen when I was a freshmen in college.

With my family, we just kept moving & my parents kept fighting & drinking, or vice verse.  Before I was eight, I was far more bold.  I could dive pretty well & swim like a fish.   I'd jump off of anything.   That year my parents got a divorce.  It was definitely the right thing to do for them & us kids.  Still, it jarred part of me, that never quite got back.  I never dived without tensing up again, I hate the feeling of falling & I've never swam as well since.   I got very angry & part of that anger is still with me today.  It doesn't burn as hot as it did back then, but it's there.   

Then the cycle of my mother's many men/husbands began.   My first step-dad was actually a nice guy.  Too nice for her sake, he wouldn't fight with her & she soon divorced him.   None of the others were worth the pine boxes they are or will be buried in.  This was the norm until I was thirteen.

By now I had lived with various relatives, been dumped on baby-sitters for weeks at a time & left with my older sister.  But one day when I was thirteen.  I realized something, she had ditched us.  She was gone.  I had watched her kids for years, cleaned her house, did what I could to survive her & then she just left without so much as a good-bye.

From then until my later teens, I bounced from relatives, foster homes, juvenile centers, group homes, living on my own, jail & even a place for juveniles with "special" problems.  In other words if they can't push your square peg through enough round wholes, they call you a loon. 

At seventeen I ran away to college of all places.  I shouldn't have gone.  I could handle the academics, hell I got a Ph.D., but I wasn't there to learn.  I was just hiding.  Trying to survive.  In college I stayed until I had my doctorate.   I made some friends along the way, nearly all are gone now.

I lived in Tulsa, OK for a while after school.  It didn't go so well.  The economy for the academic arena was already falling to pieces & no needed another sociologist.   My bright future dimmed pretty damned quick.  Shortly, I found myself moving to help a friend  whose mother had just passed.  Turns out, he didn't really want help, he just didn't want to be alone.  

I found myself stuck in a tiny town of mostly unfriendly people.  In about 1999, I noticed I hadn't been feeling well.  It went away, then it came back, then it went away & came back worse.  I had been sexually active for years, but I played "safe".   I hadn't been active in a while.  Did I mention the town was full of unfriendly & mostly unattractive people?  I had been tested  three months out from my last encounter, then six, even nine.  I was fairly certain I wasn't +.  HAH!!!

The last part of 1999, I couldn't do anything.  I was wasting away, I could barely eat or move.  I sleep all the time.  I had night sweats.  There's a lot of this time I simply can't recall, because I was just too out of it.  But I can remember, I was freezing.  I didn't have insurance & had to rely on a free clinic for anything & they were none too helpful.  Finally, my friends took me to an ER & there I stayed in an ER room for the next eight hours, cold, tired & thirsty.

From 2000 until now, I have known I was +.    I didn't expect to be here today.  I thought I'd be dead by now.  Another surprise, I'm still here.  How very Yvonne De Carlo of me.  I wound up in the hospital once over a reaction to Retrovir (AZT).  I begged charities for drugs & fought with the HDAP program.  I eventually got on disability.  It seem things were looking up, again hah!

In relatively short order, my then roommate bailed to go live with a boyfriend he'd had for about six months.  I lived in the house alone for a while before my current roomie moved in & we eventually left that place, because the former roommate let it go back to the bank, even though we were making his payments.  We wound up in a shitty trailer.  Then it got interesting.  Over the course of the next few years, my roomie lost her job & wound up on disability as well. 

Life was not easy & it only got rougher for her.  She was treated like crap during the disability process. I thought they were just trying to outlast me, but they were hell-bent on humiliating her.  Things settled some after she was on it, but the $ issue was always there.  In the next few years, she lost both her mother & grandmother.  We now live in the grandmother's house, paying rent (upkeep) to her uncle.  She's making plans to get her off of disability.  I know that she will give it all she can.  

For me, my father finally turned up back in my life, be it mostly by phone.  He's in Texas, where's he's supposed to be sober going to AA meetings.  I don't trust it.  It may not be fair to him, but he set the situation up for me not to trust it.  My mother passed this last year & all I could feel was relief that the woman couldn't cause me any more chaos.  The rest of my family is scattered to the winds.  I talk to my older sister every couple of months or so, but it feels like we're just going through the motions.  Neither one of us, really know anything about the other any more.  We're related, but we're not family. At this point in my life,  I have a my roomie, some cats & a few people I chat with online.  For me, that's life.

That's that edited cliff notes of my life.  These are some of the defining moments. I really hope 2012 is a good year for everyone.  The rough years are getting a little hard to handle.   Some people would say that you just have to let go of all this stuff & move on with your life.  One question, if people like me let go of all the crap that defined us, then who are we?  Who would we be?

Cya

Monday, December 26, 2011

Post Christmas....

I am weirdly more festive today than I have been all season long.  Go figure.  I guess the best thing about today was that I got to go shopping without having the grocery side of Wally World crowded with seasonal amateurs.  The store may have been sold out of a lot of things, but it was nice to go down the aisle without people dawdling like they've never shopped for groceries ever.

I am not the most patient person, especially not when it comes to shopping.  I want to get in & get out.  I am not one of these people that enjoys spending time at Wal-Mart.  I don't get it & don't want to.  I just want to get my groceries, go home & unload them.  This is a practical thing for me, not a social event.

So, I am happy for today, Happy Post Christmas.

Cya

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas...

A very short post to you all.  Merry Christmas.   I am at home with my roomie & the cats.  It's quiet & calm.  The running around is finished & the gifts delivered.  Now it's time to enjoy & reflect.  To  begin our farewells to this year & greetings for the new one.   Whatever your reason for the season, happy holidays.


Saturday, December 24, 2011

Birthdays & Beans...

Today is my roomie's birthday.   Hooray's & Hoorah's for her.  For me, it's another unbirthday.  Not much to write about on this Christmas Eve, except to wish you all a happy holiday season.  Being just the two of us, we opted for a non-traditional version of the Christmas Ham this year.  We're going with ham & beans  with cornbread.   We've also fixed cornbread stuffing with ham.  There is a pecan pie, so we aren't suffering by any means.  

The holidays are wrapping up.  I know New Year's has yet to come, but the Jolly Old Elf part is about to pass for another year.  I have to say that I have handled the holiday season better this year, than I have in quite some time.  There wasn't an immense amount of nostalgia, family history weirdness or seasonal irritation.  No this season was fairly well acknowledged & accepted.  

I still have some cooking to do, so I'll leave you with you with holiday wishes & a light display.

Cya




Friday, December 23, 2011

A Little Prevention...

A bill is running late getting to me, so I ran to the mail center to see if it had come in for me, of course it hadn't.  However, I did notice that one of the tires on the van was a bit low & decided to run down to the mechanic & get it looked at.   My roomie may have to drive this holiday weekend & I didn't want to leave her stranded somewhere with a flat.

I waited for 30 minutes surround by one less than intelligent father & his two rambunctious boys.  I am not a fan of children to begin, but when a fairly useless parent is involved, I'm even less tolerant.  Here, I am, just trying to get my tires looked at & now I have to his kids wailing & him whining to someone else about his child support payments & how they're eating him alive.  Hah, if only.  If they had, he wouldn't have been there  in the first place & I wouldn't have had to heard him or his kids.

They found nothing wrong with the tires, but told me if it goes low again to come back.   Hopefully it won't go low again or it will at least wait until Tuesday, my mechanic's shop will be closed on Monday.  It may not have solved much, besides getting some air in a tire,  but at least there was an active effort to avoid a flat & some reassurance that the tire should at least make it through the weekend.

Now time for the PSA, "Remember to always check your tires before a long drive or holiday weekend."

Cya

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Happy Solstice...




The Solstice is upon us & a Happy Yule to all.  This is the day when the dark of the year begins to recede into the light.  The Holly King gives way to the Oak King.   In other words the days are going to start getting longer.  Soon, it won't be dark at 4:30 in the afternoon.  I, by far, dislike the dismal of Winter more than the frigid weather.

For those of you unfamiliar with Yule, it's a Pagan tradition out of the Germanic areas.  It is where we get many of our modern customs.

    • The Yule Boar became the Christmas Ham
    • Yule Singing became Caroling
    • The Yule Goat became a set of Reindeer
There is of course the Yule Log among other other traditions.  It is important to notice that there are many Winter Solstice observances around the world.  From Japan to the Arctic regions, there are traditions for this time of the year.  From the burning of clocks to the festivals of lights.  It would seem every culture has their own way of looking at & celebrating the Winter Solstice.

Be mindful of those who may have differing customs than your own.  You wouldn't want them laughing or criticizing yours.   Whatever holiday(s) you observe, may they be joyful.

Cya

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Apologies...

Lately I've been talking to a lot of people about someone apologizing to them.  I almost despise apologies.  It seems to me that most apologies aren't sincere.  They're means to make the offender look less offensive or to make the offender feel as if they've wiped the slate clean.  "Well, I apologized, isn't that enough for you?"  Some times it isn't enough. 

Just because you apologize does not undo the situation.  Especially not if the offender turns around & does the same thing a day or two later only to look at the offended with a cheesy smile & snidely say they're sorry.  Apologies without remorse or intent not to repeat the action are bogus & worthless.

Some people come to you with their apologies like they're giving you the greatest gift that has ever been given.  This is common among twelve-steppers. With these people, the apology is about them, just like the action they took that required the apology was about them.  When the apology is about the person who did the offense it is again worthless.

Even if the person is repentant & sincere, that doesn't mean that you have to accept their apology.  Some things are beyond a simple, "I'm sorry".  You may not be in a place in your life where are ready or capable of accepting that apology.  Not all apologies have to be accepted.  If you accept an apology just to get out of awkward situation, then you're only cheapening the situation for yourself.  It may only take one person to offend the other, but apologies require participation on behalf of the offender(s) & offendee(s).

I can't tell you whether or not  you should accept an apology.  Every situation is different.  You're on your own for that decision.  But if it doesn't feel right, then tell the person, I do not accept your apology or that I can not at this time accept your apology.   If they get mad, then the apology wasn't real anyway.  If the apology was genuine then they'll understand that you are simply not ready.

The best bet is not to do or say anything you'll need to apologize for or if you do, then rectify the situation as quickly as possible.

Cya

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Holiday Heat Wave...

We've actually been a bit unseasonably warm here for the last few days. We hit the 60's F yesterday & probably will do the same today.  It's a bit odd to be less than a week before Christmas & to be this warm.  We're supposed to be heading for a cool down this weekend.  So the holiday should be nice & chilly, but it won't be white.

I am not all that enthused about  the white Christmas idea.  That would just mean a bunch of people driving on the frozen stuff who should never been on a slick road in the first place.  Snowy roads in Oklahoma actually mean one thing, ICE!.  Ice is far harder to drive on than snow.  Snow gives & can actually allow for some traction.  Ice is unforgiving & has a lousy sense of humor.  It likes to see you go swerving off the side of the road into the ditch.

So, hoorah for non-white Christmases.

Cya

Monday, December 19, 2011

A Charitable Cussing...

Let me begin this with a bit of back story.  First, I am on disability, in other words, I am poor.  According to the Census Bureau's definition, I am a good ways under the poverty line.  I might not even have internet if it wasn't included in my rent.  

Second, I am interested in many social/political causes.  I may not have $ to give to these causes & charities but I can at least sign petitions, post things to may Facebook wall & make telephone calls, but's that about it.  There are a lot of charities & causes I would love to give $ to if I had it to give.  I'm usually running in the red. 

Finally, I am fairly selective of these causes.   I am not going to be active in something I think there is little chance these efforts will have an impact.  I really doubt if some African country gives a damn about a petition to treat gay people better in their country.  I do not care for charities that treat people in other countries before the people in their own country are being taken care of in regards to whatever matter.

I have been told repeatedly that there are so many charities & aid groups for people living with HIV in the USA.   I have looked high & low for over a decade & have found only three that could help me in any way at all.   I believe that the Ryan White grants have helped my specialist out Tulsa with OSU Medical at Houston Parke.  Tulsa Cares did what they could for me in the beginning. Mostly they got me on HDAP before  I got disability to get my meds.   Before all of that, a group out of Fort Smith, AR helped with a couple months of meds.  I believe that group was called Fort Smith Reach Out! but I could be wrong on that.  My recollection of the early days on the meds is really mainly a blur.  I do remember that they were based out Central Mall in Fort Smith.

Everything else I receive is what anyone on disability could get.  I've found no other support system, aid center or really even any one else to talk to on the matter.  So I get touchy when people tell me I have so much more than someone else in a  foreign country & I should give what little I have to them, because somehow they are more deserving than me.

So, to the point, yesterday a HIV  "charity" group based off of Facebook sent out this request for an event.   I was busy & clicked maybe on the response & had planned giving it more attention later in the day.   Turns out it was some aggressive panhandling being done by this group page.  I won't say which charity they were campaigning for, it wasn't the charity's fault this person was an ass.

Before I can get back to it, I receive a rude message about how this a charity drive & if I don't send $ via Paypal I will be dropped.  I went to the FB page & remarked that I did not appreciate his aggression & if that was the way he planned on running his group, he could drop me from it.    I received another message informing me he didn't give an F'ing damn about my feelings & I had better cough up the cash.  I replied back that it was obvious that he did not care about other people's feelings & that I was + & broke.  After this I received several more messages from this person being cussed & having names called.  Finally, I  reported the messages to Facebook.  I'm not sure what they'll do about it, but now this person is blocked from my page.

After this I looked at all the charity FB groups I was involved with & it seems that this individual was highly involved with every one concerning HIV/AIDS.  He was being just as belligerent on each groups' page.  I contacted these charities & informed them that I was removing myself from their lists as long as he was allowed to go on these tirades via their FB pages.  I have yet to hear back from them & might not.

I am a bit upset that I had to remove myself from these groups, but it was for the best.  No one who attempts to bully $ out of people is truly charitable. Any group that allows him to continue on like that isn't one I want anything to with.  This individual was not charitable, but instead was quite hypocritical.  The group I left had hundreds of members  & only a few had responded to his liking.  He has promised to remove them all from the group if they do not comply with his wishes.  This is how the Grinch stole charity.

Oh well, there are other groups to work with & endorse that will accept what I can do for them.  Hopefully this jerk won't destroy the charities he's representing.

Cya

Sunday, December 18, 2011

One Week & Counting...

The countdown continues & Christmas nears with less than one week to get here.  The children must be leaping madly about waiting for the day they can tear into their goodies.   Within two weeks we will have lived through another round of holidays from Hanukkah, Christmas, Kwanzaa, New Years & even my roomie's birthday, she'll be 52.  Well give or take a bit on that number.

Whatever day or days you do recognize, I hope they are pleasant for you.  May you make cherished memories to carry with you.  Those are the things the holidays are really about.  It's not the religious points, commercialism or even the holiday specials.  It's those moments that we will recall about this time of the year ten, twenty or more years from now.  This is when traditions & history are made.  This is what you will tell your friends & family about down the line.  So make it a good year & pay attention to every detail you can.  

Have a great season.

Saturday, December 17, 2011

Doing Well...

Today has been pleasant.  There haven't been any serious issues with my health or the house.  There isn't much going on either.  We plan on catching America's Test Kitchen & probably Sarah's House if we don't forget one or both.  I know, sounds so exciting, doesn't it?  But, not everyday has to be on at full burner.

The cats are settling into their cold weather habits.  They begrudgingly snuggle close to each other for warmth.  They bury themselves into piles of afghans.  They've mostly turned from little lithe bodied kitties to four-legged, furry sausage creatures.  

I will be glad when the holiday season has passed.  Then maybe TV schedules will settle down again.  Only fourteen days left in 2011.  The time is slipping away.   

Whatever you're doing today, I hope it goes well.

Cya

Friday, December 16, 2011

Another Friday...

Only two more Fridays left in this year.  The whole thing is coming to a close.  Are you ready for the Holidays?  I am.  That all got finished up yesterday.  Woohoo for us.  The only thing left is for the roomie to actually go to her celebrations & deliver all the goodies.

Normally, I'm a bit weirded out by the passing of the year.  Not this one.  I know there's no guarantee that 2012 will be any better.  There's even another end of the world prophesy, but's it's got to beat 2011. This year was rough in so many ways.  I'd like a year of not so much hellish weather, mass breakage & other crappy stuff.

So, get you're wishes for the new year in order.  Plan out those resolutions.  In the mean time have fun with the holiday stuff.

Cya

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Thursday Again...

Yet another Thursday is here.  The trash has been picked up & some groceries were procured.  Not much planned for today except going over to Fort smith, AR to pick up the roomie & hopefully retrieve the final Christmas gift on the list.  Other than that it's me, here at home, with the cats & possibly a video or two.  Maybe, maybe not, on the video.  Sorta addled about videos today.  We'll see.

It's warm but gloomy today.  Apparently the big news cast for today was that we are supposed to be heading  for a cool down.  No, say it isn't so.  After all it's only mid December, not like we're getting near Winter or anything.  Pardon my slight sarcasm, but my local news could win Darwin awards if they were based off of  lack of personality, half-ass accuracy & being something other than obvious.

That's about it for today. Have a good one.

Cya

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Compliments....

I am not a person that gives out compliments at the drop of a hat.  However, I do feel when someone has done something noteworthy they should be acknowledged, including oneself.   My roomie has gotten a couple of compliments from me lately.

The first one was aimed at her new endeavor of improvisational or visceral artwork.  We've been watching, Work of Art, on Bravo lately.   Quite frankly we have not been overly impressed with a lot of the pieces being produced by these artists.  My roomie has gotten into using the tiny program MS Paint to do very limited pieces.  She's limited by the programs lack of functions & the fact she rarely spends more than half an hour on them.  IMO, the pieces she's produced in this manner have been on par & often better than those produced by the artists on the show.

The next point of praise came when she endeavored to improve her own situation   My roomie's mobility is somewhat limited.  She decided to look for an aid in this issue & began looking for one her insurance would cover.  Now this effort has proven to be more arduous than expected, not to mention complicated.  Yet, she has continued to push forward on the matter.  I have no idea what the outcome is going to be, but at lest she took the initiative to improve her situation.  That's more than a lot of people would do.

There are two things I have given compliments on lately.  Who or what have you acknowledged recently?  Was it a real compliment or just flattery?

Cya

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Warm December Day...

Today's a bit odd,  it's supposed to get to about 65 F here today.  That's pretty warm for two weeks before Christmas time here.  The mostly indoor cat has found great joy in the warmth & has insisted on being outside today.  It may be one of the last warm days of the season.  

I like the fact that it's warmer.  It means I get to cut the heater off & save on the gas bill.  However, all this up & down temperature sliding is bound to be bad on a person's health.  So, I hope what ever it does weather-wise, that it slides slowly back & forth without any rapid switching.

Yeah, I know I'm griping about a warm day, but that just proves Virgos can find something to pick on about anything.


Cya

Monday, December 12, 2011

Plans...

I love plans, they make my little Virgo mind go through life so much easier.  What I don't like is when plans go awry.  Now these attempts to organize the chaos of life into an orderly manner can be sabotaged by many factors.  You may forget to include some elements into your plan.  Some things in life are difficult, if not impossible, to account for in any strategy.  These things are annoying.  What I really hate is when it seems that some outside force/person/entity has decided to get it's jollies by screwing with your plans.  That bites.

In my household, we have to plan for just about everything.  Both of us are on disability & that limits the cash flow drastically.  This last year has been a testament to the unexpected things; a fairly new water heater dying, a less than two year old computer dying, a pipe freezing, car issues, dental difficulties, etc...  I could go on to with a virtual plethora of other issues, but why beat a dead horse.

I guess the point of this post is quite simply put, I am looking forward to the end of the year & hoping against hope that 2012 is better for us than 2011 was.  Here's to the new year.

Cya

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Another Sunday...

Not much going on today.  Just setting around & staying warm by the fire.  Not much to get done today, except for dishes.  The cats are snuggled up close to each other for warmth.   It seems they take turns getting out of the pile & going down by the fire to warm up & then return to the mass of cat newly warmed.  The mostly indoor cat who wishes she was still a mostly outdoor cat is not very involved with these pile ups.  Occasionally, the smaller of the indoor kitties will sleep next to the "outdoor" cat.    

Today is for getting dishes done, staying warm & watching the season finale of Amazing Race.

Cya

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Adjusting...

It takes a while but once the weather settles down I can usually get used it.  I'm starting to adjust to the cold weather & it isn't nearly as bothersome as it was a week ago, even though it's actually colder.  I doubt I'll ever be a big fan of cold weather, but after this Summer, the cooler weather is a relief.

Colder weather means several things for me:
  • Having to keep the house as winterized as possible
  • Leaving the faucets dripping at night
  • Making sure there's unfrozen  water for the outdoor cats
  • Leaving bedding for the outdoor cats
  • Celebrating the diminished flea/bug population
  • Fighting off any rodent invasions
  • Digging out & piling on the blanket/afghan arsenal
  • Adjusting to cats lounging/sleeping on/with you
  • Back to drinking hot tea

Those are just some of the adjustments that come with the colder weather.   Hope you all are adjusting to the chill.

Cya

Friday, December 9, 2011

Carol Gripes...

I had decided to post a holiday song every day after Thanksgiving until Christmas to my facebook page.  That seemed easy enough.  Hah, perhaps even double hah.  I can't locate half the songs I would like to post & even I can locate them they're some screwed version of the song.  I keep finding instrumentals when I want vocals.  I find orchestral & choral when I want stripped down &/or solo.  Then we get into all the newbies taking their shots at holiday classics.   Yuck.  OK people, nobody with any sense wants to hear a rapped out version of Rudolph.  I don't care what Taylor Swift or Carrie Underwood want, I want the  classic versions of the songs not theirs.  

I'm off to try & find a song to post for today.  Wish me luck or at least happy hunting.  The good carols are scarce.

Cya

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Itchy...

Well, it's that time of the year again.  The time when a combination of heaters, weather & hot showers leave my skin itchy.  I hate this.  This is the only time of the year I really like to take hot showers.  They open up my sinuses & help relax my aching muscles, especially when I manage to sleep in an odd position.

Now comes the lotions & ointments to try & calm down the itch.  The redness isn't too bad & I haven't managed to scratch myself too badly yet.  Hopefully, I won't.

So, my choices are Summer time heat with sweat, but no itch or Winter time dry, itchy skin, but no sweat.  What a choice.  Why did Fall have to leave so soon?  It isn't even really Winter for another couple of weeks.

Cya

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Bill/Trash Day...

It was sort of a busy morning for us.  My roomie got herself around for an appointment only to have it get cancelled,.  So we still had to go to the mail center & send things off.  While we were out we managed to hit the bank & pay the rest of the utility bills.  We hadn't planned on doing that today, but we we're out, so why waste the trip.  Being Wednesday, it's trash day eve again.  The trash is taken out & the bills are paid.  For us, this is a busy morning. At least it's all done for now.

Cya

PS - Did I mention it's a little past nippy?

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Countdown Continues

According to the little day planner on my start page the countdown through holidays is as follow.


EVENT                                               DATE                                      DAYS


Hanukkah                                          beginsWed, Dec 21                   15
Winter Solstice                                   Thu, Dec 22                             16
Christmas Eve                                    Sat, Dec 24                               18 
Roomie's BD                                      Sat, Dec 24                               18
Christmas Day                                   Sun, Dec 25                              19
Christmas Day (Observed)                 Mon, Dec 26                             20
Kwanzaa Begins                                 Mon, Dec 26                             20
New Year's Eve                                  Sat, Dec 31                               25



I'm sure there are many celebrations left off the list, but this catches the major ones, I think.  I hope you all are ready for this holiday season.  May it bring you good tidings, joy & all that other stuff greeting cards talk about this time of the year.  I think there was something about good will & peace.  Sounds pretty hippiesque to me.

Cya

Monday, December 5, 2011

Dentist...

I'm off to the dentist day.  We are in the process of replacing a cap from my childhood with a real adult crown. Funny how much cheaper a cap sounds than a crown.   Easier on the wallet too.  There will be that & a filling.  Here's hoping all goes well.  


Cya

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Wet & Chilly, Take Two...

It's fairly chilly here today & it's been raining off & on since yesterday afternoon.  We are currently under possible flood warnings.  We need the rain.  I just wish it'd come a little at a time.

I have a dentist appointment tomorrow, so there probably won't be much of a post for Monday.  This may be one of the last times I get to see my current dentist.  My insurance is changing & I'm not sure how this will play out.  I am not happy about it.  I like my dentist.

We did tomorrow's shopping today, so it wouldn't be on the list of things to get done on the same day as my dentist appointment.  Wally World was less than pleasant.   Something about the place always screws with my allergies & sinuses.  The rest of the day is pretty much set with staying inside & getting food together.

I hope you are all warm & dry wherever you are.

Cya

Saturday, December 3, 2011

Last Month Anniversary...



Today is the the eleventh month anniversary of the this blog.  Another woohoo for me.  I made it this far.  One more month & I will have made it an entire year.  I have kept up with my news year's resolutions.  I have posted to this blog & I have posted at least something to facebook everyday.  

Lately, my posts here have been short & centered on health & weather, but they're still posts.  My facebook postings tend to stay to some shares of political stuff I'm interested in, LOL pics & just the occasional commentary.  Right now, I'm posting holiday songs.

I am looking forward to the year mark for this blog.  I'm not sure what I'll do then, but I will at least know that I could do this much.  This is a helluva commitment for me.

Have a good one

Cya

Friday, December 2, 2011

Still Blowing...

I thought I was moving past this sinus crap.  But all this weather flip-flopping has sent me back into it.  I am tired of blowing my nose.  Not much into doing a post today.  I'll probably just watch some shows & rest, before I take a nice hot shower.  Maybe that'll help get this stuff out of me.   Here's hoping you all are feeling better.


Cya

Thursday, December 1, 2011

December Is Here...

December is here & the year is drawing to a close.  This edges us closer to the various holidays.  I hope everyone has a good holiday season.   Here's hoping the best for the month,

Today is World AIDS Day.  It's be going on for over thirty years.  This year's theme & those for the foreseeable future is, "Getting to Zero."  A noble goal, I'm not sure how feasible, but still a good aim.

A lot of people are speaking out on HIV today.  The President of the US wants to kick more $ into HIV/AIDS issues.  It's needed.  NYC has decided that any one found to be + should be on meds immediately instead of waiting for their immune system to take a nose dive.  I believe San Francisco took a similar stance a while back.

Whether you seek to celebrate Feast Day, World AIDS Day or the tribute to Rosa Parks from the national transit system, I hope you have a great day.

Cya

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Tomorrow...

Tomorrow is the first day of December.  It'll be farewell to November & hopefully my sinus/head cold.  Other than that November wasn't that bad of a month.  No major problems.   Nothing broke.  There were surprises & others that won't be fully realized until later on, but for now, November was a a solid three stars out five month.

Now, onto the festivities & frivolities that constitute December.  I hope it goes as smoothly as November.  We don't need any more hiccups or bumps in the road.  

Here's hoping for a good December.   Until next year November.

Cya

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Still Sniffling...

Definitely feeling better, not 100%, but much better.   I hope this trend continues.  I have a dentist appointment on Monday & don't want to have a sneezy, drippy nose during it.

The weather is settling into a cold spell.  No where near as cold as it's going to get, but gone are the days in the 60's F.  I really wish the 60's 80's of Fall would've lasted longer.

Here's hoping this Winter is another hell-beast one like last year.  That's all we need, a repeat year of 2011.

Cya

Monday, November 28, 2011

Still Here...

Another long night of sleep may have helped, but this sinus crap is still paying havoc with my head.  I am very tired of having to blow my nose.  I'm surprised it isn't raw by now.  I got my fav tissues today, the Puff's Plus with Vicks.  You can just breath through them & feel a little better.

Did shopping today.  That was not fun & left me exhausted.  Stopped by & got jr-burgers from Sonic.  They hit the spot.  Here's hoping this stuff is on the down hill run.

Cya

PS -  it was our first serious cold day here.  Had to get the frost off the car windows.

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Wracked...

Another short post.  My body feels like hell today.  I went to bed early last night & actually managed to sleep fairly well.  I was feeling better this morning, but that has faded some.   The fever has come back & my head is stuffy.  I hate being sick when I'm already sick.  Having anything on top of being + is just annoying & complicated.  You're never quite sure what's actually bothering you & how the two issues are affecting each other. I probably won't last long today either, before I crash for the evening.  Hopefully, two really long nights of sleep will nip this thing in the proverbial bud.

Cya

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Bluck...

The weather has really done a number on my head.  To be frank, my head feels like hell.  Apparently, the occupants of this household do not suffer weather fluctuations well. Sinusitis is the complaint du jour. Hopefully this crap will pass soon.

It's raining right now & only supposed to get colder through the day.  So, we'll be wet & cold for a bit, just wonderful.  Soon, I will be in a hot shower, hoping the water will melt away the congestion & loosen my stiff muscles.

I really hope you are feeling better.

Cya

Friday, November 25, 2011

At Home...

I'm spending today at home, doing basically nothing whatsoever.  I'll be eating left overs & maybe watching some television, but that is about it.  The holiday is over & the recovery from it is underway.  Most of the dishes are caught up & put away.  

Not much to say about anything today.  Just thankful that the holiday is over & that I didn't have to go shopping today.

I hope all of you had a happy Thanksgiving. 

Cya

Thursday, November 24, 2011

TDay...

Well, it's here, Thanksgiving Day (US) that is. The cooking is well under way & won't be all that complicated.  Unfortunately, my roomie didn't feel up to going to her relatives today, so she's stuck her with whatever I can whip up.  No pecan pie for her.

Today is a day to be thankful for all that we have & all that we do not not.  I have made lists of things that I am thankful for before & I could again.  But few of us take the time to be thankful for what we don't have in our lives.  There are countless ways our lives could be far worse than they are.  I"m not going to list all the negatives that I count myself fortunate for not having in my life, that would be fairly negative & not very apropos. 

I will say that whether or not you are celebrating Thanksgiving today, I hope you all are doing well.  

Happy Thanksgiving.

Cya

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

On The Edge Of Purgatory...

The weather has been flip-flopping like crazy lately in our area.  We've been warm & cold, wet & dry, windy & still, etc...  All this indecision has left my sinuses reeling.  My head is aching & feverish.  My ears are stuffy & popping.   My eyes are itchy & draining.  That doesn't mention how my sinuses make my teeth hurt.

Leave it at, I am not in the best of places right now & neither is my roomie.  Hopefully, she'll feel well enough to deal with familial things tomorrow.   This is going to be a short post.  Looking at the screen is not being overly friendly on my eyes today.  

Hoping you're all feeling better than me.

Cya

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Occupy The Bed...

OTB has become with a vengeance.  The cats have laid claim to various parts of the bed leaving only the bare middle of bed usable for humans.  That time of the year has returned.  It's cold enough that the cats have no choice but to snuggle up close to the human.

This comes with some perks:

  1. The cats are sleeping with me
  2. The cats give off a lot of warmth
  3. They purr a lot in their sleep
  4. They're cute & cuddly
However there are less than pleasant aspects to this phenomenon:

  1. The cats fuss with each other all night long
  2. The cats try to knead your flesh
  3. The cats snore 
  4. They position themselves in the most obnoxious manner possible
Even when cats appear to be cute & cuddly, it's all really clever ruse to cover their self-centered, rude, greedy, demanding little natures.  

Yeah, I said it cat, don't try to cute face me. 

Cya

(examples, but not my pics or kitties)





Monday, November 21, 2011

3, 2, 1...

Thanksgiving is but three days away.  Did some shopping today & it was not the most pleasant excursion.  People should have to have a license to navigate a shopping cart & it should require extra certification classes if children are involved.

Overall, it wasn't horrible, just not fun.  At least it's done.  We came home & ate.  It's supposed to storm today, so that is probably all that will get done today.  

It'll be us, the cats, some food & the storm.

Cya

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Paying For It...

Yesterday, I did some weatherizing outside & now I am paying the price.  Most of what I was doing was wrapping up & insulating outside water taps.  I'm very irritated at the idiot that put water spigots outside without a means of cutting them off from the rest of the water flow of the house.  To have it done now would be a hassle considering all the pipe work is underground & under the house.

Anyways, during this endeavor, I apparently bent & stretched in some unusual ways.  Now a third of the backside of my body is sore.   I must of pulled some muscles or something.  Add to that, there was a gusty wind out yesterday stirring up all kinds of stuff.  My body is stiff & sore.   My sinuses & eyes were very irritated.

Hopefully a couple of days of less exertion will let the soreness pass.  Just goes to show, no good deed (even one's done for yourself) goes unpunished.

Cya

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Holiday Plans...

Thanksgiving is less than a week away.  What will you do?  We  used to try the full-out holiday fare, but it was just the two of us, so that didn't really work.  We've made adjustments to the menu that suit our needs. We cut out things that we have all the time & combined some other dishes, while some remain front & center (green bean casserole).

A holiday should fit your needs & not you it's. If the traditional thing just won't do for you, then tinker with it until it does.  It may not be someone else's idea of  Thanksgiving, but that's just fine.  It doesn't have to be any one else's holiday, because it's yours & the people you choose to bring into it with you.  So make it work for you.

Have a good one & remember there are always things to be thankful for...

Cya

Friday, November 18, 2011

Count Down To Hell-Day Is On...

I normally shop on Fridays, this probably won't be the case next week.  Because next week brings us to Hell or better known as Black Friday.  When normally sane people go berzerk to save a few dollars on an item they probably don't need in the first place.

I have the holidays dealt with except for a few last minute things that just arent' out yet.   As soon as they are, I am done.  Then the holiday vultures can have the stores.

So, buckle up, Hell is just over the horizon, brace yourselves for impact.

Cya

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Nippy...

Well it's nippy again for another couple of days, then we should be back into overnights of mid 40's F to 50's.   The day time should be in the 60's.  This is definitely jacket weather, but not OMG it's freezing time, yet.

I am not a fan of the overly cold, any more than I am of the overly hot.  I wish it would get to the upper 20's F overnight & low 40's during the day for the duration of Winter.  That way it can kill off all the little nasties like fleas & fire ants.

This year in Oklahoma we saw lows in the -30's F & highs pushing over 115.  That's a 145 degree range of temperature.  That is ridiculous & damned hard to live with no matter where you're from.

Here's still hoping for a less severe Winter than last year.

Cya

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Changes, Bah Yuck...

I am a Virgo & thus not overly fond of change, especially not change dropped at my doorstep, unannounced & unrequested.  Be that as it may, that is exactly what has been happening lately. First, we had to alter the car insurance plans.  Then there were the earthquakes (may I remind you that this is Oklahoma).  Now my dental insurance is feeling left out & wanting some attention as well.

Apparently they are phasing out the plan I am currently on.  Why, you ask?  I have no idea.  The plan I selected looks like the one I had with higher costs for some services.  Why didn't they just raise my premium, instead of making me go through this change?  I would ask more questions of the customer service people at the insurance office, but I am relatively sure they have no more idea about this matter than I do.  Very Comforting. (That was slight sarcasm)

Again I am a Virgo & not overly fond of change.

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Mid-Season Weeding...

Every new TV season there are way to many possibly good shows on to keep up with.  We find ourselves recording or watching some of these shows online.  Finally a ways into the quagmire we start eliminating the not-so-good ones.

Some don't last for a second viewing.  Many leave us pondering & we give them a four or five episodes to prove themselves.  Some do, some don't.  Some we decide to give the whole season & see if we any kind of yearning to see the show again when the new season returns (Nikita failed).  Others we know we're hooked on.  Then there are the old stand-bys that start to falter & sometimes fall to the wayside.

We have offed the one-shots already.  Now we are into mid-season cutting.  Project Runway: Accessory may find itself on this list soon.  For now it's Once Upon A Time.  Maybe it'll be something we want to watch in summer reruns, but not now.  This isn't a death sentence.  I didn't start watching Law & Order (any of them) until the original show had been on the air for nearly a decade & now I love the show.

Some of my stand-bys have been somewhat disappointing this season.  House hasn't wowed me.  Bones went to the place no show should ever go, the romance between the two main characters.  Fringe is being well fringe-ish. 

There are some new shows that I am liking.  I love last season's intro of Body of Proof.  I really like Person on Interest & so far I'm sort of into Grimm, but mainly for the Wolf.   

Let the weeding begin.  Let's thin out this crop.

Cya

Monday, November 14, 2011

Holiday Encroachment...

There are encroachers upon us.  I went to the store in mid October & there were already displays for Thanksgiving & Christmas starting to arrive.  It bothers me that we can't just enjoy one holiday at a time.  Let the pumpkins, ghost & goblins have their day, then the turkey & pilgrims, then the winter festivities.

Some one recently posted on Facebook how much it upset her that people take the Christ out Christmas by saying Happy Holidays.  So sorry to hear that, guess what, "Happy Holidays."  The winter season has a ton of holidays in it, many based off of one religion or another.  There's Saturnalia, Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, a couple of Muslim Holidays, a whole host of celebrations/recognitions for Catholics/Orthodox, Yule, Solstice & a myriad of others.   So Happy Holidays would seem far more appropriate & inclusive than just Merry Christmas.  What I am supposed to say Happy Advent?  Or maybe the real Christian point is to be exclusive to the rest of the world like Mr. Garrison from Southpark.






I guess we won't even be able to enjoy Thanksgiving without Christmas butting in.  The stores have already started blasting us with holiday music.  These are a few that I got hit with today.   

Cya









Sunday, November 13, 2011

Warm & Windy...

Warm & windy are the words for today.  We are nearly 80 F here & the wind hasn't stopped blowing for three days.   It is supposed to be blowing in some storms over the next few days that will throw us into another cool down cycle.

The warm I can handle, but the wind is being an issue.  It's stirring every bit of dust & debris up & making it hell on the sinuses.  My eyes are really hating the crap flying through the air.

Oh well, at least it's warm.

Cya

Saturday, November 12, 2011

Saturday Is Here...

It's very windy today.  It isn't really that cold, but the wind is definitely putting a chill in the air & the atmosphere.  I hate it when I know I'm really not that cold, but the humidity or the sound of the wind makes you feel as if you should be cold.

The cats are all nestled on the couch.  Even the mostly outdoor cat is curled up in a ball among the others.  For now they're warm enough not to have to huddle close together.  That is always a testy time for them.

Romie is shifting gears into winter crafty mode & looking for her looms.  She's been dabbling with some new-to-her knitting techniques.  It helps keep her hands busy & therefore focused on something other than being cold.

Winter is coming, is becoming all to common of a saying in my home.  Unfortunately, it's true.  Damn, I wish Fall would've lasted longer.

Cya

Friday, November 11, 2011

Done...

With minor exceptions most of the holiday shopping is done.  I think we've gathered all we need for Turkey Day dinner & most the Christmas presents.  Shopping went fairly well & not too pricey this year.

I lucked out & found a bunch of stuff at good prices & just snatched them up.  I wasn't planning on getting any Christmas stuff today, but there it was & now I'm 99% done with it all.

Anyway happy 11-11-11

Cya

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Chilly Day...

Woke up to another chilly day.  I am not used to the colder temperatures yet.  I probably won't ever be.  I would seriously like to live somewhere it stayed in a nice, moderate temperature zone, like 60 - 90 F.  I am not a fan of weather extremes.  What's so great about being extremely hot or cold?  Nothing.  I am not a fan of big rains, snows, ice storms or tornadoes. I can definitely live without eruptions (limnic or volcanic), tsunami, hurricanes, earthquakes, lahars or blizzards   I guess with all that to consider, I should either live in a bubble or on some space station.  Alas, for now, I am stuck in Oklahoma, where we have or probably have the potential to have, the majority or weather phenomenon I dislike. Just my luck.

Cya

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Accomplishments...

I know I've said this before, but I feel it is very important to acknowledge one's accomplishments, especially if no else is going to do it for you.  It is imperative to our mental well being that we know that we are capable of preforming tasks & achieving goals we've set for ourselves.  

In my opinion, recognizing the little accomplishments is as important, if not more so, than the mammoth milestones.  It is very easy to get down on yourself.  But if you can stop & say,  "Hey, maybe I'm not the best at this or that, but I did accomplish A, B & C today, so I am not worthless."

Today is back to Trash Day Eve.  It is a fairly busy day for us. There is: 

  1. Trash to be taken out.  
  2. Dishes to be done.  
  3. Laundry to washed
  4. Meals to be cooked
  5. Errands that need to be ran
  6. Appointments for my roomie
  7. Deal with other household chores.
Those are just some of the things we usually wind up doing on Wednesdays.   My roomie was remarkably  productive this morning.  Before her 10:00 appointment she managed to get herself around &:

  1. Hit the mail box place
  2. Go by the bank
  3. Go by her doctor's for a prescription
  4. Go by the medical supply place
  5. Pay the car insurance
Those are just the things that I am aware of that she did.  All those things need to be acknowledged as something she did.  She is capable of doing these things.  I think knowing these things, makes life a little easier on us.  

Besides taking the time to smell the proverbial roses, why not take time to take stock of all you've accomplished in your life recently, big & small.

Cya

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Dark & Wet...

It's wet here again today.  Not a fan of the dismal overcast skies, but it did make for good sleeping weather.  Got a bit to get done today so this will be brief.  The cats aren't happy about the rain, it's sun-blocking them.  We ran some errands & did a little shopping & the rain was a tad bit chilly.  Hopefully this system will give us a little rain & then move on out of here.

Cya

Monday, November 7, 2011

Still Adjusting...

I am still adjusting to the time change.  It usually takes me a few days to get in the swing of things.  I do like having the light in the morning when I wake up.  However, I am not fond of it being dark at a little past 5:00 PM.  

The cats aren't buying it either.  They do not believe in time changes.  Especially not if it in any way affects when they get fed.

The time change is just another point that Autumn is here & well on it's way out. We are a month & half into Fall.  Winter is fast approaching.  Why the hell didn't Summer fly by this quick?

Cya

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Shake It...

Oklahoma may have a lot going for it, but this year there was a lot going into the negative column:

  1. Record cold winters -30 F & below in some parts
  2. Ridiculous levels of snow fall this year
  3. Outrageous tornado season
  4. Flood happy spring
  5. Record breaking summer heat
  6. Drought conditions
  7. Fires
  8. & now, drum-roll please, we have earthquakes
That last one was not expected.   Oklahoma always has tiny earthquakes, but you normally never even know they occurred.  That changed last night with a 5.6 magnitude quake that shook the house.  According to the geological service there were ten quakes from Saturday through Sunday morning.  Just wonderful.  The only weather phenomenon we're missing here in Oklahoma are hurricanes.   Just give it time, we already get the winds & rains carried up to us.  

Oh well, just another day in OK.

Cya

Saturday, November 5, 2011

Leaves Changing...

Not much going on here today.  Went & ran some errands & that was about it for the outdoor activities for the day.  I noticed how the leaves were changing colors today.  I snapped some pics of them.   It's odd how some trees change in a uniform manner & others have a spectrum of color that gradients from green to reds & ambers.  The cats are setting in the windows trying to soak any sun they can get.  They aren't having that much luck with that today, it's fairly grey out.  

That paragraph was rambling & I have about summed up my day so far.  

Cya

Friday, November 4, 2011

Belateds & Yogurt Trojan Horses




Yesterday was my ten month anniversary for this blog, but things came up & I got distracted.  So happy ten months to me.  Yippie.

I am feeling better today than yesterday & even managed to get some shopping done.  I also managed to send  some trojan horses made of yogurt into the stomachs of my cats.  We have a flea problem in these parts, even in  the cold.  Part of that is due to the constant presence of vermin; mice, skunks, ground squirrels, possums, etc.... These animals all carry fleas in abundance & fleas carry parasites that mature into worms.  Darn varmints.  

Any way, my cats are not fans of the wormer, whether it be a pill or capsule.  So, I get the capsules & pour the insides into some plain yogurt, my cats prefer Greek.  Cats + yogurt = lickfest.   Soon all the medicine is gone & the worms find their days numbers.

Worming is done & anniversaries have been acknowledged.

Cya

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Yucks...

I am not in the best of places today.  I'm not particularly sick, but I have the yucks.  For some reason I woke up early & couldn't really get back to sleep.  The weather is flip-flopping & driving my head nuts from the pressure changes.  My sinuses are being an issues, as well my digestion.   Overall, I am tired, drainy & just plain have the yucks, or if you prefer the yicks, but not the ick, that only affects fish.

I did a little shopping today & will go pick up my roomie in Fort Smith later.  I opted to reschedule my dentist appointment.  I feel like well, yucky, & postponing it just makes more sense.  Hopefully, the weather will stabilize & my head will stop feeling so crappy.

Cya

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Another Trash-Day...

It may be a little weird, but I actually like trash-day.  I may not totally be into taking out the trash, but I do like the concept of it.  I like the fact that the refuse is leaving our home.  I like knowing that whatever amount of garbage left our home, is no longer part of our lives.

We've gotten way better about how much we keep & throw away.  We don't take near as many bags to the curb as we used to.  We have cut back without even really noticing it.  It's gratifying to know that we are wasting less.  That we are spending less, at least partially, because we choose to.

Then again, I am a Virgo & we Virgos do love our rituals.  The garbage ritual is a good example of that.  This ritual is organic & natural.  We use things & discard the waste.  All animals do it in some form or another.  We try to keep our homes, our dens, as clean & free of debris as possible.

Here I go contemplating the concept of refuse removal.  Hah.

Cya

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Hello November...

Random Thoughts:

  • November is here 
  • Within a week the clock will fall back one hour  
  • The whole holiday mess is upon us.   
  • I am hoping that this month stays warmer  
  • I don't want a repeat of last year's hellish winter 
  • I have holiday shopping to do 
  • I have a dentist appointment this month.  

So far though, November's being pretty nice.

Cya

Monday, October 31, 2011

31st...

It's the last day of the month.  Sort of sad.  I like October & this takes us deeper into the dreaded holiday season.  It's like being in a boat heading towards a waterfall with no motor or paddles, ahead Thanksgiving Rapids & Holiday Falls.  You know it's coming & you can't avoid it, it's inevitable. 

Today is Halloween.  I like what Halloween reminds me of from my childhood.  I love the Great Pumpkin. It's brisk here.  Those poor kids in the northeast US with their Snotober.  I wonder if they can even trick or treat at all in that mess.  Tomorrow's news we'll talk about little Bobby lost somewhere in the snow during his rounds of trick or treating.  A real holiday tragedy.  From here out anytime there's snow on Halloween you'll hear little Bobby pleading for help from with the snow drifts.

So October, it's been nice seeing you again.  You were a good month.  There was pleasant weather & not too much rain.  Only my glasses got broken & not a water heater, oxygen sensor or some other ungodly priced thing.   I even got my glasses fixed today.  Luckily, Lenscrafters didn't charge me for the repair.  I picked up my replacement pair of glasses as well & they'll do fine. 

It's been nice, until next year October.

Cya