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Friday, December 31, 2021
Goodbye December, So Long 2021...
Thursday, December 30, 2021
Fog...
It's foggy this morning. My roomie has a friend over & the cats are never sure about how to handle that. It's a strange day for me.
Today is my sister's birthday. I used to always call her during the holidays & wish her a happy holiday & birthday. A ways back I called & she seemed off about it. That was when I started accepting I was the one leading this relationship.
At one point, this was the closest person to me. Then she wasn't. Even then I think the relationship was more leaning towards me wanting it. When the separation started, I was very young. Then life got weird & I held on to a memory.
We aren't even phone call close anymore, no more monthly calls. We've spoke twice this year. Once to tell me my father had passed. The next time surprised me. She called me, I was pretty sure someone else had died, but no. She had actually just called. She hadn't done that in over a decade probably won't ever again.
The thing I learned during that last conversation. My sister was no longer that cool, long haired, 1970s girl listening to the radio as we drove down the highway. Now, she's an agitated conservative, anti-vaxxer. She went from being my safe place, to being someone I'd never spoke to if I met for the 1st time today. Times change & memories lie. We try to see the best & it's often wrong. I wish this woman the best on her birthday, but I don't know her & she isn't the sister I knew.
There's my nostalgia for the year. Take care.
Cya...
Wednesday, December 29, 2021
Grey Endings...
The Winter greys are here & don't look to be going away anytime soon. It's raining. Looks like we'll make our monthly rain average. This isn't supposed to last all day. That's good. We have to handle trash & run an errand. I don't want to do that in the rain. We will if we have to, but it'd be nice not to.
Looks like the year will end in a series of grey, wet & colder days. The forecast calls for a frigid over night for the 1st. I don't like it, but I suppose it's expected. It's Winter after all. Hope it kills all the lingering bugs & weeds. This last warm week has caused them to come out in droves.
That's all for now. Take care.
Cya...
Tuesday, December 28, 2021
3, 2, 1...
We're almost done with 2021. There are only 3 full days left in the year. So far, other than reactions to the booster, we've managed to stay fairly healthy the last half of the year. Yet, we still managed to get some stomach bug we've been dealing for a few days now. Still, it's better than we've done in the past near the holidays.
We have next to no plans for New Year's Eve. Our only idea is to make a plan for NYE. We'll see how that works out. With few choices & lots of idiots & COVID, nothing may be the better option.
That's all for this morning, take care.
Cya...
Monday, December 27, 2021
The Last Monday & Anniversary...
It's the last Monday of 2021. With all the issues of December I forgot to place my refill order for a med. I'm usually more on top of this. But, things got lost in the shuffle. I'll be alright. I just need to do better with this.
Nearly a decade ago, our cat, Alice, passed. She wasn't with us long, but she made a huge impact. She had a home that let her become a street cat. Then we took her in with us. She was a great cat & loved having her picture taken. She helped raise the siamese we have now. She was loved & missed. Here's hoping your next home is warm, kind & full of people wanting to take your picture.
Cya...
Sunday, December 26, 2021
Warm & Done...
It's been unseasonably warm here. The last couple of days have been in the mid to upper 70s. There was a lot of wind. That following days of freezing overnight temps has left me feeling pretty off. I spent most of yesterday dealing with seasonal stomach yuck. Next week is supposed to be quite cold again. The snap will go in the other direction, the result will probably be the same.
Most of 2021 has wound up for us. Just a couple more rounds of shopping & an errand or so. I hope more doesn't pile on the top.
The holiday is over until New Year's. I hope yours went well. May the rest of the year treat you kindly. Take care.
Cya...
Saturday, December 25, 2021
Merry Christmas...
The holiday is here & I hope everyone is having a good day. May there be joy in your day. This is the last Saturday of the year. There are only 6 more days in 2021. Soon we'll have a new year. I hope a lot of this mess comes out in the wash.
Take care.
Cya...
Friday, December 24, 2021
Eve...
It's Christmas Eve & a bright, if windy, morning. The pic above is of Salem the holiday kitty. He passed a while back, but I still post his pic, he could be very festive.
I hope today & the rest of the year is peaceful & bright for everyone. I'm sure most of us could use that. Soon, this holiday & year will be a memory. It'd be nice to close it out on a high note.
Take care & happy whatever holiday you observe.
Cya...
Thursday, December 23, 2021
Car, Cold, Sleep...
Car issues, house stress, light changes, the cold & more conspired to exhaust me. I woke late this morning & slept very deeply last night. I'm a bit stiff from it all. We got the car back & they said it was fixed. Days are starting to get longer again, it's a long process. It'll be cold until at least March.
I don't have much to write about this morning. It's the day before Christmas Eve. Until COVID started, we'd have tried to do more, but now it's just not worth it. Few people are wearing masks or even trying to be safe. A little over half our state is fully vaccinated & a much lower number has had their boosters. With the holidays & Omicron, the COVID numbers will probably go way up again.
Maybe next year will be better & we can go see a movie or at least eat out somewhere nice for our birthdays. Be safe this holiday season & take care.
Cya...
Wednesday, December 22, 2021
Again With The Car...
The car is at the mechanic. Hopefully, this won't turn into something bigger than they thought. If it goes well, this should be handled in a few hours. That'll be another stressor dealt with for a while. That will be nice.
It's also trash day. The next to last trip to the curb of 2021. It's really weird it's that late in the year. 2021 hasn't felt right at any point. It wasn't a horrible time, but it wasn't a good ride either.
Hope you've got your year handled. Take care.
Cya...
Tuesday, December 21, 2021
Happy Solstice...
The Solstice is here, may good things come to us all this Yuletide. Fall is gone & Winter has arrived arrived. Here's to the Holly King, may he not stay long.
There are only 4 days until Christmas & 10 left in this year. What are you going to do with them? Past the new year, this blog & my HIV have an anniversary. It's funny what winds up defining your life.
So say goodbye to Autumn & greet the new season. Make as much peace as you can with 2021. Soon, it will be a memory. Look at me, trying to be positive in a post. Weird, huh? Take care.
Cya...
Monday, December 20, 2021
Cold, Grey & Annoyed...
It's cold this morning. I'm hoping it gets above freezing before we go shopping. I hate cold weather. Cold air leads to heaters & heaters lead to dried out air that can cause nasal congestion, eye irritation, throat yuck & nose bleeds. All of which, have been happening since the heaters have returned. It's always a choice, stay warm or breathe?
On this grey morning, I'm the thing that's annoyed. It's hard to wake up. My nose keeps threatening to bleed. Then, an app on my computer screwed up. I think I've avoided the bleed & the app seems repaired for now. I can't do anything about the grey except turn on more lights.
Winter sucks. Take care.
Cya...
Sunday, December 19, 2021
Ugh...
Over the years, something has become very clear, I'm part of possibly the most overlooked group of people living with HIV. Other than a tiny amount of work, little has been published concerning anyone not of a specific ethnic/religious persuasion or gender non-typical living in the rural US. Other than advances in telemedicine, there hasn't been much change in treatment in a decade. BTW, telemedicine wasn't developed for HIV, it just benefitted HIV+ people.
When I look for articles, if I find them, there almost never pertaining to my area or something that will impact me. Most of them are concerning the drama involved with treating ethnic or trans groups. Hell, I see very little about HIV treatment among the Native Americans & I live in Oklahoma.
If you're looking for pieces over HIV in ethnic/trans groups, foreign countries or even adjacent diseases (COVID) you're in luck. Those are abundant. If you live in a rural area, sorry. Articles over rural HIV are like everything else when it comes to HIV & the rural life, non-existent.
Rants over, take care.
Cya...
Saturday, December 18, 2021
Soggy Drear...
The grey skies have lingered. At least the storms have subsided. In the less than 48 hours, we've have 2"+ of rain. We'll probably make our average rainfall this month.
All this drear & weird rain has sacked my sleep. I haven't felt really with it in a couple of days. After 2 nights of loud storms & dreary days, I need some sunlight. This grey morning looks like it came the Fall or Spring. Instead it's a week before Christmas. There's nothing festive about this mess.
That's all for now, take care.
Cya...
Friday, December 17, 2021
Stormy...
Thunder & lightning woke me last night. It stormed hard for a bit. It could keep storming all day & into tomorrow. We're under flood warnings. It's going to have to rain a lot for anything to flood in the area. The river's way down & we've had a fairly dry last month or so. Again, we need the rain, but we don't need the dark, dramatic storms.
I need to shower & then go shopping. We have a couple of other errands to handle. Then it'll be back home for the day.
BTW, next Friday is Christmas Eve. Take care & try to have a happy holiday.
Cya...
Thursday, December 16, 2021
Dark Thursday...
It's 9 AM & it's dark outside. I doubt it's going to get a lot brighter today. There's a chance for storms today. We took the car in yesterday & at least there's an answer as to what's leaking. It won't get fixed until next week, but at least it's a start. Just having a plan is good step.
There isn't much going on here. Hopefully, it won't get too stormy today. Take care.
Cya...
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
Stressors...
There are a lot of stressors in my life at the moment. If they came solo or even at a different time of the year it'd be better. These things would still be stressful problems, but I might be able to handle it better a bite at time & during the bright of the year. But, as usual, things want to come in groups. With my SAD issues, it's all just compounded.
I think we'll figure it out. But I know this much, adulting SUCKS!
Cya...
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
Grey Morning Again...
It's a yucky, grey morning. We have some tentative plans for the day. We'll see how those play out. I'm not sure what happened, but yesterday was not a pleasant allergy/sinus day. Something messed with me all day. I'm still not breathing that great. There's a lot of sinus congestion & throat clearing. It's supposed to be dismal for the week, with rain chances. We need the rain, but I don't need the drear.
That's all for now, take care.
Cya...
Monday, December 13, 2021
4K...
I didn't find any interesting articles this morning. At least it's bright outside & supposed to be warmer. The car mystery is ongoing. Other than the last round of credit card bills, 2021 is paid for. After that, I'll close the box holding those papers & 2021 will be put on a shelf for a while.
The most notable thing about this entry is that it's my 4,000th post. It's been nearly 11 years that I've been doing this. Other than school, I've kept very few things going this long. I'm not sure what comes next for this blog. It's getting harder to find pieces & I don't do much of anything anymore. I guess I'll figure it out as I go.
That's all for now, take care. Happy 4K to me.
Cya...
Sunday, December 12, 2021
3-2-1 Sunday...
After today, there are only 2 more Sundays left in the month & 2021. The year is winding down. I feel like we're starting to measure years in terms of COVID. There was that 1st original year. Then there was delta, followed by omicron. We need to ditch this method of year remembrance.
It chilled down again last night. It's supposed to be pretty chilly for the next couple of days & then warm up a bit. I doubt there'll be any white Christmases near our area. Those are pretty, but I can do without it.
Not much going on this morning. Saw an article on HIV actually recommending condom use. How novel. That's it for now, take care.
Cya...
Saturday, December 11, 2021
Not Satisfactory...
Yesterday was hectic & unsatisfying. The mechanics couldn't find what was leaking on the car. They cleaned the area up & want us to drive it a bit. Then we're supposed to bring it back to see the leak then. I hope we can get answers soon. Needing to get a car fixed is stressful. Not knowing what needs fixed is worse.
That's all for now, take care.
Cya...
Friday, December 10, 2021
Busy Friday Morning...
It's going to be a busy morning. I need to get cleaned up & go shopping. After that, we have to take the car to the mechanic so they can find out why it's leaking. So, not much time this morning. Here's hoping the weather holds.
Take care.
Cya...
Thursday, December 9, 2021
Iffy Articles...
I found 2 lines of thought in the articles this morning that could've proved interesting, they didn't. The 1st group's titles inferred AIDS or undertreated HIV could stifle COVID. What they sort of said was that immunocompromised people could harbor the COVID virus longer & possibly allow it to mutate. Then they went on to say there was a need to study these regions to better understand the development of COVID variants. There was a lot of blather, but little info.
The 2nd group's main push seemed to be the CDC was going to push an aggressive, new strategy to get HIV better under control in the US. Sounds great. What's their plan? They want doctors to talk to everyone who is sexually active about PrEP. A lot of people never go to a doctor. I've never had a doctor ask me if I was active, even though I'm HIV+. How are all these meds getting paid for? Who is this better for; the people who might get HIV or the companies making PrEP?
Like I said, iffy articles. Take care.
Cya...
Wednesday, December 8, 2021
Not Quite...
I'm feeling mostly better, but there were still moments yesterday. This booster was rougher than I'd hoped for, but that figures. Hot/cold switching & anxiousness seem to be the leftovers from this shot. Maybe that will fade soon. Then again, part of the anxiety is from the car issue. I wish we could've taken it in sooner. I guess this time of the year has the mechanics busy.
I didn't see any notable articles. It got cold here. The last couple of nights it dipped under freezing. Still not enough to shock all the plants into dormancy. I'm still seeing wasps in the sunny spots. Cold wasps are an issue, they fly cold-drunk. You're more apt to get stung because of an accidental fly by than intent.
That's all for now, take care.
Cya...
Tuesday, December 7, 2021
Not Expected....
I felt better yesterday morning, but that changed as by the early afternoon. I didn't feel as bad as I had, but that booster wore me out. I was tired after shopping.
The unusual thing was the level of anxiousness I experienced from it. I was nervous, fractious & stressed most of the day. Anything worked my nerves & nearly sent me spinning. It didn't help that the young cat was being a shit & that we're going to have the car looked at.
I hope we can avoid any more major issues during the dark of the year. I'm already dealing with SAD & everything other thing is just another straw. So much for December not being stressful.
Cya...
Monday, December 6, 2021
Possible Link...
There's been conjecture the Omicron variant of COVID in Africa may have developed due to exposure the high levels of un/under treated HIV in the region. Omicron is more prevalent in Africa. However, it isn't known where or when it developed.
While it could've developed in Africa. It could've reacted to the presence of untreated HIV. While these are possibilities, they still don't know. What they do know is that Omicron is present. More than that will take time.
This simply shows, the world as whole needs a much better response to COVID. I'm not sure how that will happen without a global government. Let alone with all the anti-vaxxers & their BS.
I really hope we're not taking boosters every 6 months forever. I'm just now starting to feel better. Come on anti-vaxxers, just die already.
Cya...
Sunday, December 5, 2021
Serious Yuck...
I hope today goes better. Yesterday was not fun. The reactions to this booster haven't been easy. Other than nausea, it's been like having the flu. Pain, chills, & fever topped the list. I wasn't able to eat much & even drinking was an effort. There was this weird disjointedness to it as well. When I'd reach for something, I felt like I was either over or under shooting for what I wanted. My steering was loose & off.
I went to bed early & managed over 8 hours. I can only do that when I'm sick. I woke up sweaty & feverish. When I had to go to the bathroom, I smelled like a sick person. I hate the smell of being sick.
Here's hoping today goes better & these symptoms start to fade soon. I really don't want another sick day. This sucks
Cya...
Saturday, December 4, 2021
Dreary Recovery...
It's a dreary morning & I'm not happy with that. Sunshine would've been very helpful. We're recovering after getting our COVID booster yesterday. So far, it isn't as bad as the 2nd shot, but this isn't fun either. I'm tired, sore & slightly anxious. I'm worried it could worse. I'm trying not to psych myself out about it.
I'm too spent for more, take care. Get your boosters.
Cya...
Friday, December 3, 2021
December Beginnings...
It's time for the 1st of the month bills. We've already started, because the gas bill runs early. By Monday, everything but the credit cards will be paid for the last time of 2021.
We'll head out in a bit to handle what we can this morning & go shopping. After that, we'll get our boosters. I hope this is the last time, but I'm not sure about that.
It's been an entertaining morning outside. Squirrels & birds don't make good neighbors. I'm not sure who goes after who 1st, but they're always going at it. The birds don't like the bunnies either, but at least the rabbits stay on the ground.
That's all for now, take care.
Cya...
Thursday, December 2, 2021
December 2...
It's the 2nd day of December & it's supposed to get warm today. We could almost hit 80 today. That's pretty warm for almost Christmas time. We don't have much going on today. We'll start bill paying tomorrow. We'll try to get our boosters tomorrow. That's about it for now.
Take care.
Cya...
Wednesday, December 1, 2021
Hello December & World AIDS Day....
It's the 1st of December & the end of the year. It's a bright morning. We have a bit to do today. We have some errands & my roomie has an appointment. It's also trash day.
I didn't see many articles this morning. Most were talking about the rising cases of HIV during the pandemic. Many were looking forward, some back, on the age of HIV. Biden has stated his White House will focus more on older Americans living with HIV. The 50+ range is a large part of HIV+ people.
Hello December, let's try to be a good month. No one needs any end of the year drama. We've dealt with that too many times already.
It's also World's AIDS Day. This year's theme is equitable access to care. Maybe Biden will be more involved. It'd be easy considering what little tRump did.
Take care.
Cya...